You need to help her get some help. If she will not listen to you you need to go to a trusted adult-parents,teacher,school counselor etc. They will know what to do to get her the much needed help she deserves. She will probably be mad at you at first but soon will realize that you were just trying to help her because you careMy good friend Becca is an alcohlic and she drinks any chance she gets i dont get her shes only 15?
She may be having problems at home. Talk to her and find out what is going on. It could also be peer pressure. You are a good friend to care so much about her. I hope you can go to a trusted adult so that Becca can get the help she needs.My good friend Becca is an alcohlic and she drinks any chance she gets i dont get her shes only 15?
It sounds like she could have a real problem. You should try and talk to her about it if you feel it has gotten out of control. If you think it is super out of control then you might even consider talking to her parents as a last result. Also it could just be a phase. When I was in college I drank every night and got completely wasted. Now I am 24 and hardly ever drink and when I do I only have 1 or 2 drinks. Are there certain people she hangs around when she drinks? Maybe they are bad influences on her. Talk to her. Tell her how you feel.
As a friend, you need to do some sort of intervention. Confront her and explain that you are worried about her well-being. Also, tell on her. I am sure her parents would not approve of such behavior.If she gets upset with you, tell her that you want her to live a long life and you love her and don't want to see her die early.
Don't make her feel bad, just be there for her and give her a shoulder to cry on.
She'll get sick of it soon enough when every night turns into a barf fest.. No matter what you say she probably won't stop... She needs something bad to happen like with the cops or her parents for her to realize the mistake she's making... and please don't drink and drive!!!
I know it's not a question but it is a cry for help for your friend and I am saddened to hear about it. You are not likely to be able to help her alone so please get some adult help now.Don't enable the drinking but try to stay close for support. The two of you have a tough row to hoe; good luck.
I don't know what you're getting all worked up about. At 15 you're supposed to be having fun. When you graduate high school, life stops... you have to work your butt off the rest of your life and have no time to be drunk. I say lighten up. Friends don't let friends drink alone. Also, the world is full of ugly people, but, when you're drunk, everyone looks much better... how can that be a bad thing?
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